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Straight or Homophobic???

Celeste wrote on 8/29/2006 11:53:05 AM :

So what do you think? I'd surely like to know.

Do you think that using the word "straight" to describe one's sexuality is homophobic? I do.

It implys that being "straight" is normal. The word "straight" usually implies that something is normal, regardless to what is being referenced.

Adjective

straight (comparative: straighter, superlative: straightest)

  1. Not crooked or bent; having a constant direction throughout its length.

          a straight line.

  2. Strictly along political lines.

          He always votes a straight ticket.

  3. Direct, truthful, frank.

          a straight answer.

  4. As it should be.

          Everything is straight now.

  5. Undiluted.

          straight whiskey.

  6. Having all cylinders in a single row. (referring to an internal combustion engine)

      a straight six.

I bolded that words that imply straight as being normal, and the right thing to do.

Who do you think? Is using straight to describe a heterosexual a homopobic term?

 

willie c wuddle wrote on 8/29/2006 1:51:29 PM :
I'll get STRAIGHT to the point and give you a STRAIGHT answer. It is not homophobic to call someone STRAIGHT, nor is it homophobic to call somebody a gentleman of bent persuasion. It may be homophobic if a STRAIGHT person gets cranky and irritated if a gentleman of bent persuasion rubs up against him. 
SweetMelody wrote on 8/29/2006 1:56:09 PM :

willie c wuddle wrote:
I'll get STRAIGHT to the point and give you a STRAIGHT answer. It is not homophobic to call someone STRAIGHT, nor is it homophobic to call somebody a gentleman of bent persuasion. It may be homophobic if a STRAIGHT person gets cranky and irritated if a gentleman of bent persuasion rubs up against him. 

LMAO-- are we speaking from experience Willie. OMG that is so funny.

SweetMelody wrote on 8/29/2006 2:05:35 PM :

Just an added note:

I'm not sure if it is homophobic per se - as its usage although linguistically dubious is not soley to denigrate, insult queers or conversely to elevate heterosexuals. So though I strongly dislike its usage to refer to heterosexuality for the reasons you stated, I do not think it is strictly homophobic, as much as it is perhaps 'insensitive' - not sure if that is the word I'm looking for but I'll go with it for now

I prefer to use words like heterosexual or hetero, or if I want to wind someone up or mock 'gays' type terminology, I might say 'straights' or 'breeders'. I am not sure though.

willie c wuddle wrote on 8/29/2006 2:48:46 PM :
Many moons ago I learned not to stand in that certain corner at the Cosmo. I couldn't figure why the guys were smiling at me and really freindly. I was quite embarassed when a girl I knew explained what was going on. I homophobically avoided that corner for years after and went STRAIGHT to the bar instead. (The left side of the bar not the right side.)