Do you know that many homophobics are that way because it is a secret fear that they are gay themselves?
I have nothing at all against gays. A lot of the youth is gay..many of my friends are. Homophobia confuses me..i mean you hate someone because of who they love and are attracted to. I always wonder h ow i would feel, to like guys and people to humiliate me and to tell me its unnatural. There are many people who are gay and dont tell anyone because they are afraid of what society would say.
Sometimes people label me as a rebel /punk/goth/ whaever stupid thing they can think of, and a lot of my friends who i seem to drift to are the same..a lot of them are against gays, and i dont join in on their slander. They deal with a lot and i am sure its not a lifestyle they would have wished for themselves. Yea a pair of guys hugging without shirts grosses you out? what about two women? i am sure you accept women more then anyone because we all have this image of a man being tough and masculin, and prehaps when we see a more vulnerable male, men tend to think it might make people question them too, so they steer clear of this person. It is all steriotypes and Masculinity. Its over-rated. I am straight, so i dont take a WHOLE lot of offense, but my male friend is a homosexual, and he gets the living $h1T kicked out of him...its sad and by people who call themselves " homophobics"
~~Cuz' Love is what matters;after all~~