Moncton Forum

They went to court monday and posponed it till this morning. But there is something that came up yesterday after work. Woke up (first morning in like 2 weeks that i wake up with a smile on my face) and go to work. Had a really good day was happy all day long so I was feeling good. Until I got home from work. The phone rings and it was my mom. Well she then told me that I shoudl sit down cause she had really bad news. My satellite dish is through them and when she opened her bell express bill, it was for almost 300$ (usually it's 44$ per month) there was 230$ woth of porn rented on my reciever. Found a hole in the wall between my phone jack and my tv. a big enough hole to pass the phone wire so it can be connected to my reciever to rent movies. That's only august bill, we're still waiting for the september bill now. So up until now we're down over 800$ and it's only going to get higher by next month when the other bill comes. I am so piss and drainned I don't have a clue what to do anymore. He through his whole "I didn't do it" then his crying out of anger fit, tehn just crying his eyes out. As I told my b/f funny for a angry kid that he only gets angry when he's in trouble. Sounds just like my brother. I've been through the whole thing before and ended up moving out at 16 because of the same crap. If things don't get better, I'm going to have to move out cause I can't take it anymore (even if I love my b/f with all my heart) I just can't mentally so that's teh up date. Now give me advise on how I can stay mentally sane please lol. Cause I sure don't have a clue.

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the only way i can think of for you to stay sane right now is to somehow get a break away from that kid.maybe the court visit will help you with that.

good luck

I tried going to the bar last night to put the issues aside but still woke up pissed off this morning lol.

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But thank you. I wish the kid the best of luck with life. He doesn't seem like he has a good head start. Only hope things will change in his mind.

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like they say you can't help others unless you can help yourself first.this is what he has to do he himself has to realize he is doing wrong and try and correct it.his behavior is like an addiction.best of luck and hope things start to improve for you soon

Hehe If one day you hear about this crazy woman that was running around moncton naked screaming her lungs out adn had to be hospitalized, you can assume that was me lol. (gotta find hummor in my thoughts sorry, kinda need it at the moment.)

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now the big question would that be a sight to see or to avoid

Dunno, some would say it's a sight to see i suppose lol. and some wouldn't. I think there's only one person on this forum that could comment and I doubt he will lol.

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yes i can see the headlines(naked cautiouslizard runs through the streets of moncton her b/f in hot pursuit film at eleven)

Well then you guys would know why I like the name cautiouslizard

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just trying to add a little humor  haha

Yeah I know, that's why I try also. I've been on edge for too long now and I'm ready to crack. Maybe that's where the humor comes from I'm at teh breaking point of going crazy lol

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Cautious, has he been assessed by a Mental Health professional? They're excellent at picking up addictions behaviors and sorting them out from actual mental health issues. To be honest, most addictions are a cover-up for what's going on emotionally anyway. If this kid is your step-son (I have 2 step-children myself) he may well be dealing with attachment or abandonment issues. I don't know the relationship between him and his mother, but some of his behaviours sound so familiar! Just out of curiosity, how is he doing in school? Has he required tutoring or other special supports? If you'd like to message me privately, I have a few other questions, too ... but I don't want to put you on the spot of exposing too much to the whole world. If you'd like to chat or vent or ask questions privately, just know that I'm here. :-)

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My apologies to anyone I've offended. And with that, I'm disappearing. Enjoy the forum.

yes you are right there are a whole lot of other issues that could be affecting his behaviour

Well got more info, they have dropped his grand theaf auto charge adn gave him possetion of a stolen car instead. His next court date is oct 30th for his sentencing, so I have to endure another month of other things he will do to us. I sh*t you not, if he keeps it up I'm going to have to move out and I hate even thinking of that because me and my b/f get along sooo perfectly. I think I'm starting to loose it.

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